Because your actions say, “Women are Emotionally Unstable and Incapable of Making Good Decisions!”

“When is the right time (in one’s life) to have a baby, if you want to procreate after all? What would be your major consideration – age, career, location, environment, etc.?”

That is the question that came into my inbox this morning! When I see questions like this, it becomes abundantly clear why the Government decides to make decisions for us! Myu short response to this question? “NONE OF THE ABOVE!!!” A longer reply? When you are self-aware and mature enough to realize that you can make decisions for YOURSELF, and also take care of another human being in the process”! Too many women are in this world have an opinion on how they want our society to view us, but they do nothing to help the way we bring up women in our society! Too many women are excited about the idea of having a child, but they don’t really want the responsibilities of a child, they just want to reap the rewards that come with having a child. (I won’t get into the details today, about what ‘you think’ those benefits are, but your highly mistaken and very delusional if you think having a child will make your life easier!) For those who women who already know that you don’t want a child, why are you sleeping around without protection? FYI, a government check is not worth ruining a person’s life! We need change, but it is not what you think! Let me state one fact about raising a child, there are a lot of stages, obstacles, stresses, and struggles that come with being responsible for another human being, and there is NO one size fits all where parenting is concerned! But how you live your own life, will in fact affect that child and impact both your lives for years to come! So, when I see questions from this generation, who are hung up on just trying to “procreate”, I have to question your motive! What the hell is wrong with you? Raising a child should never be taken lightly and honestly, just by asking such a question as the one above, you’re not only NOT ready for a child, but you are still living life with a child-like mentality! GET KNOWELDGE & GET WISDOM!

“IF WE WANT TO CHANGE HOW WOMEN AND CHILDREN ARE TREATED

WE HAVE TO CHANGE HOW OUR SOCIETY THINKS OF WOMEN AND CHILDREN“
BY CHRISTINA DITZEL

Let me start by saying that change starts with a decision. Decide to be the change you want to see! My heart breaks every time my daughters’ friends come to me with mommy and daddy issues or advice. So many questions cross my mind and then I realize their parents are too hung up on themselves to even listen to their child’s needs and concerns. Very few people understand what it takes to be a parent in this generation! Adults have gotten so dam sensitive these days that even if I did offer advice to their children, it would only cause drama in my own life because they would say “I’m overstepping”. Umm, well maybe you should step into the role of parenting, and I wouldn’t have to! Ugh, I really feel like giving advice to their parents! “So many people watch these movies, TikTok’s, and things all over social media that make parenting look funny, fun, happy, and super irresponsible! Can I just say that some of you have very twisted humor! I don’t know you, so I don’t know if you are a good parent, a dead-beat dad, or a shitty mom. But if you are not willing to make many sacrifices, encourage, support, teach, learn, and love, that child with all your heart and all your soul don’t have a baby. Most people don’t even know how to love themselves. Most people today act out in desperation because they’re so codependent and on the hunt for love. We will go everywhere but ‘within’ to get just a small dose of pleasure. We will even turn to an innocent baby for love and affection.

THE REALITY OF PARENTING

“Aww the baby is cute!” Until that baby/child prevents them from eating, sleeping, having sex, dating, disrupts work or work schedule, and basically having a personal life at all! The rich? OH yea, they hire nannies to raise their kids. The reality of being a parent is this: ‘you really need to know your own love language, your partners love language, and your child’s love language’. If you really want to have a happy, healthy family life, you will need to be master’s in communication! And you need to be aware that you are responsible for making every decision, with the wellbeing of that child as your first priority, for years to come! (Yes, even into adulthood). Just like you didn’t ask to be born into a shitty home, neither did your child! If you can’t even touch the surface of all that, then don’t bother even thinking of having a child! We don’t own our children, but if we are big enough to create a human, we need to know how to nurture that human!

I don’t think people are aware that there are no more beds available for these kids in shelters and foster care! They are now letting any Tom, Dick, Lucy, and Jane to foster kids when their biological parents can’t hold it together. And furthermore, they are medicating these kids at such a young age because of the trauma their dysfunctional home has caused them. I have witnessed this myself! They never even get a chance to live normal, happy lives without having major mental, physical, and emotional trauma planted in the beginning stages of life. So, you ask, why are they taking women’s rights away? Because so many women are acting like fools all over social media! Because your dysfunctional videos that you’re posting with your baby’s all over “TikyToky”…is not fucking funny anymore! Because children are having children, and because messed up people are creating more messed up people! And the world doesn’t need any more chaos! The other half of society is tired of seeing this destruction and they want to change it! I am part of that other half!

Look at our government today! Look at the havoc and division they have caused along with media. You can’t even turn the news off long enough to go out into your community and do one small thing that would begin a ripple effect of positive change in your small community! Do we really want to bring children into a world that has no self-control, no respect for mankind, no moral values, and no discernment for communication and community? I know this article was supposed to be about “WOMENS RIHTS”, but it is if you listen intently. If women don’t pull together and start “getting something right” we can’t change our rights as women! And we will lose them all!

WOMEN SHOULD NOT HAVE CHILDREN IF THEY:

Are just looking for unconditional love because you feel lack
Think you’re going to get money from the government, tax refunds, and other resources (total bs trust me they’re not helping)
Are Codependent
Don’t know how to give or receive love (what’s your love language? What’s the love language of those around you?)
Are addicted to substances or have addictive personality
Make bad decisions
Are not in a mentally, physically, emotionally healthy relationship with a partner who will stick around and support you and that child
Don’t know how to take care of yourself
Don’t know how to manage your finances
THE LIST GOES ON… HOPEFULLY YOU GET THE POINT…

Know thyself before you make major decisions that could create an unwanted child. Especially when they are literally taking women’s rights away for this exact reason!!! We have to BE BETTER if we want everyone else to treat us better!

If we don’t start asking WHY? We won’t find solutions!

So many women have no respects for themselves! WHY?
They are settling in abusive relationships WHY?
They think a child will make him love her or change his abusive ways. WHY?
They don’t like being alone with themselves! WHY?
They crave a man’s attention! WHY?
Their so codependent! WHY?
They idealize others and their life! WHY?
They romance and justify their bad habits! WHY?
They gossip because they are unhappy with their own circumstance. WHY?
They flaunt their body’s online as sexual Icons! WHY?
And so much more WHY? WHY? WHY?

HELP THE MISSION

Genesis 2:18 Then the LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for him.” Please help me by letting me know how you can help! A simple Donation is appreciated, but we are better together! If you want to do more in your communities, contact me so we can create a plan and/or a program together!

I am so passionate about the women and children in our broken society! I find myself burdened by the politics that keep young moms broke and broken and never moving forward into a purpose driven life! I am passionate because I come from a broken family, and I know what it feels like to be a struggling single mom raising two teenage girls alone. I come from a place with sexual, physical, mental, and substance abuse. Overcoming the many obstacles wasn’t easy, but I’ve come to realize that we are not focusing on the right areas to actually prevent poverty in broken homes. Today I am on a mission to not only help prevent women from struggling financially, but to create programs that build better vision for our future generations! The past few years I have been modest and patronizing in so many ways, but my passion has grown beyond humility.

The wellbeing of the women and children in this world are important to me! If we as women can’t get a handle on ourselves and learn some self-control, the “higher ups” will take over and do it for us!!! I believe “we go through life so we can find our life”! When we begin making better decisions in our life, we have the ability to make a change in the lives around us! Let’s start with Our Children, because they deserve better! You deserve better! WE ALL DESERVE BETTER! But to receive better, we must be doing better!!!

I cannot do this alone and I need your help! When you are thinking of how you can help, think of the women who will get the time and space to learn new skills for job opportunities. Think of the causes they love that will become businesses. These women will learn the skills to do the work they love but also provide services they not only get paid for, but they will help other women in the process This is what I call “The Ripple Effect of Blessings”. Think of how many women we could help become successful instead of depending on men, or government assistance. In sitting down with me and asking the questions WHY? We can solve a multitude of issues that are happening in our country today.

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“WOMEN BECOMING WARRIORS NOT WORRIES”

I woke up early this morning with this thought that women have this internal desire inside them for change! Many women who want to change personally, professionally, physically, and mentally, won’t like having people in their life that hold them back or take them off focus. Rather, they only want to surround themselves with people who will motivate their vision and help them move them forward. So if you are a women in the world who has a fire inside you to become the best version of yourself, but don’t know where to start, welcome! This is a place where you get the wisdom you need to fuel the fire inside you, so you can shine your light in the world. This morning I woke up with a desire to fight for all women! This is the start of a new era. A world where women are not worriers, but warriors of their communities.

THE FIRE THAT BURNS INSIDE US

The fire inside us women runs deep. It runs so deep that we can end up losing ourselves in the people and things around us if we are not wise. We live most of our youth doubting ourselves and never feeling whole or worthy. We have an eagerness for “more”. But in many cases we don’t know what that “more” is. Many women will reach the end of the road with the demons of all their regrets lingering around their death bed. And I do not want that for you!!!

Society does everything in its power to tell us how we should think, feel, and act. We are taught very young to “be good little girls”. They said things like “sit up”, “mind your manners”, “watch what you say” “watch who you say it to”. Some even went as far to tear us down and use abusive words like “You’re too fat! You’re too skinny” “You’re not smart enough” and “You’re not tall enough” “You’re not strong enough” “You can’t do that your a girl!” or even things like “You’re a girl, you are to be seen and not heard”. All these things people say to women only leaves us in doubt, fear, and living in regret.

In some countries today, women still have no rights at all and are used for the sole purpose of baring a son to carry on the legacy of their family name. Some women are even told what they can and can’t wear. Husbands share their wives with other men and are physically and sexually abused. In the Corporate America women still don’t get paid the same as the men and we are still seen as minority. Even if we have more credentials. Even if we do a better job and have degrees. For centuries women have been told to know our place and to mind our P’s and Q’s.

I could go on and on with the details of all the things women have had to endure over the years, from the different cultures that demean women, to the lack of respect we receive if we attempt to do the same things men do. BUT! I’m not writing this so we can throw a freaking pity party! I’m writing this so we can throw ourselves into warrior mode! So we can gain a little (or A LOT) of wisdom and make a difference in our communities and in the world we live in. No matter where you live! And later, we will throw a GIRL POWER PARTY!

Look, I’m not saying all the “advice” people try to give out is bad advice. The start of wisdom is actually acceptance of the truths we ignore. Sometimes the truth hurts and we need to hear it so we can see some things about ourselves that we have otherwise ignored, or got comfortable with. In other words, we need to hold ourselves accountable. Seeing the truth is wisdom! By facing the ugly truths about ourselves, we can start taking some actions to fuel that fire that burns inside us. Truth is, when people say things it impacts our character, how we see ourselves, and how we live our life. Getting wisdom means we are aware of the things people are seeing and saying about us, but we don’t allow it to define us.

We’re not weak souls, we are strong, independent, powerful souls! We are born beautiful. We become mothers, sisters, daughters, and granddaughters. And playing those roles means we have the power and the responsibility to lead. We have abilities built in us to become bosses and owners of corporations. IT IS TIME TO FUEL THAT FIRE BABY!!! I mean, we have women running for presidency. The failure only comes when our leadership roles lack one important skill…WISDOM!

A WORD TO THE WISE

“Blessed are those who find wisdom, those who gain understanding, for she is more profitable than silver and yields better returns than gold. She is more precious than rubies; nothing you desire can compare with her. Long life is in her right hand; in her left hand are riches and honor.”

Proverbs 3:13-16

Don’t take this word out of context! Hear what this message is actually saying. The “she” they are referring to here is Wisdom. It is saying Wisdom is much more precious than silver, rubies, and gold. Listen, I am with you ladies, I like my bling! I love the sparkle and shine! I like the way I feel when I wear it. I get it! But think about this, “what if you could have all the riches plus honor, and live a long life too? Wouldn’t you want to have this “Wisdom” they’re speak about? I know I do! I don’t just want a little of it either, I want a lot! “I want as much Wisdom a girl can get!”

HOW MUCH WISDOM CAN A GIRL GET?

Well, that depends on a few factors…

How much do you want?
Who is feeding you?
Who’s feeding your mind and what are they feeding it?
Who and what influences your soul?
And, are you willing to do the work?

Our physical bodies hear the noise around us. We see the toxic and the blessings. We smell the stench of evil, and we feel the pain inflicted. How long will it take us to realize we are in control of our own destiny? We are warriors in a world full of people who are afraid of our ability to be brilliant and resilient. It’s easier to keep us down, rather than watch us flourish. They romance us with all the “50 Shades of Grey” mindset to keep us submitting to their ideas, and their beliefs. Living in a physical world where all we want is a voice, and a purpose, it is so difficult for us to wrap our minds around the idea that “we actually do have a choice”. We can choose to succumb to the fantasies that produce illusions, or we can surrender to all the experiences we desire that produce change in our life. All we have to do is take the first step. Owning our part and taking one small action that will move us forward. If you are asking yourself “But what is that action? and Where do I start?”

THIS IS THE START OF A NEW ERA. A SAFE PLACE WHERE WOMEN FIGHT FOR THESELVES AND THE WOMEN AROUND THEM. WHERE WE GAIN WISDOM, VALUE INTEGRITY AND LIVE IN ABUNDANCE. TAKE A STAND WTH WOMEN FROM ACROSS THE WORLD AND JOIN TODAY AND FUEL THAT FIRE THAT BURNS INSIDE YOU!

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