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WHY YOU WILL NEVER BE MOTIVATED
Motivation is CRAP!
Seriously, motivation is just a bunch of crap! Anyone in the world can slap a sticky note or picture frame with words of motivation on a wall! I mean there are seminars, videos, blogs, and all kinds of free material out there for us to get “motivated”! So, why? Why are we never motivated to do the things we know we should do? Why can’t we get motivated to do the things that we know will change our life? Well, I will tell why….
Because, although the many words that motivate us at those seminars, or on those videos, sound really good in the moment! Unfortunately, it literally only takes about 5 seconds for “our brain” to change “our minds”! The truth is, when we are looking for “motivation”, it’s only because we have found ourselves at a crossroad. And FORTUNATELY, all crossroads drive us to “search for what we would say is ‘motivation’ to get us to a better place”. Right? But, even though that “terrible thing” has now brought us to this place where all we want to do is find some dam “breathing room”! If we don’t “DECIDE” to stop making excuses, we will never be motivated!
Our excuses Smother Our Motivation
In actuality, we haven’t experienced any “REAL” change from motivation, because we are too busy making excuses which smothers our enthusiasm we have. We don’t take the actions we need required to make the change happen, because we just don’t have any real cause. We actually “think” we want change, but we are “pretty happy” in our mess. We are! I know what you’re thinking “This bitch is crazy right now!”, “Does she seriously think I enjoy this situation?” But before you go all postal on me and freak out. Just hear me out! Geez….
It’s unfortunate that we find ourselves in the same scenario’s over and over, but if we don’t get over this idea that “I am just not motivated” or “I just need a little motivation”, well nothing in your life will ever change. “You will never be motivated” until you stop making excuses! You have great ideas and you are super genius, but the hard truth is, “every time you think of ‘amazing things’ you get one negative thought in your head (fear of failure, doubt you’ll make it, etc.) and then when it comes to taking that one small step forward, you punk out!” There I said it!! You come up with all the reasons why you just “can’t” do that ‘thing’. And here you are again, back to “needing motivation”. Well I am here to tell you; your excuses are smothering your motivation!!!
HELLO!! Do you not know that motivation is only there to fire up some spark in your mind and in your heart?! The only way to ignite the flame inside of you, is to pour fuel on it! If you wait for something else to happen before you get motivated” to actually “take the action”, you will always be waiting and never doing. Forget the idea of being “motivated”. That’s over the second you say, ‘after I’ or ‘when I’ or ‘I can’t because’! Until you STOP MAKING EXCUSES and START TAKIGN THE ACITONS you need to take to get the life you want YOU WILL NEVER BE MOTIVATED!
This is your life and you only get one shot at it! Make it worth your while! What are you waiting for? There is nothing you “NEED” that you don’t already have! I promise, all your skills, all your knowledge, all the techniques, all the money, all your connections, and all your dreams are right there in front you. All you have to do is reach out and grab one thing! Start somewhere! ANYWHERE! But dam it, START! You have everything you need to succeed! Don’t you dare wait for money to get right, because it will never get right while you sit here doing the same shit you do, day in and day out! You have to GET UP, WASH YOUR DAM FACE, AND BRUSH YOUR STINKY ASS BREATH, AND GO OUT THERE! Go out there without any fear, with no doubt, and without any worry of failure or disappointment, because everything (good and bad) is moving you forward into your purpose! EVERYTHING! There would be no life without good and evil leveling the playing fields. So just embrace your shit and move past it!
BE MOTIVATED AND DO THIS ACTION TODAY
So, how can you get motivated today? Well first! You have to realize that words have no meaning with an action to follow. So, how can you use all the bad and good things in your life to get yourself not just motivated, but moving into action? It actually is simple, but not easy.
For example: I had to start getting up earlier in the morning every single day! That’s right even weekends! I always felt like I didn’t have enough time to do all the things I wanted to get done in a day, so what did I do? I started getting up earlier then everyone else. I woke up at 4am each morning instead 8am or 9am. That gave me 4-5 hours more in my day of productivity and accomplishments. This routine has not only helped me get more done, but I have time to take care of my own personal needs as well. Like taking care of my physical body so I have the energy I need to get through my day. I made time to actually sit down and eat a healthy breakfast, to work-out, and to do a little meditation to get my body, mind and spirit working together. And you know what I got? A lot more clarity and focus during my entire day.
These are just a few things I adjusted in my morning routine that helped me be more productive daily. Furthermore, when I am more focused during the day, I am not stressed. It allows me to have clarity and a sense of “Zen” throughout my entire day because I am not feeling rushed or hurried. It is hard to feel motivated when you feel rushed, or too busy all the time. Not to mention the anxiety level that happens in a high stress, fast paced environment. This is partly how I made the decision to be an entrepreneur in the first place! I can’t handle the high stress in environments that I know could be managed in a much more productive way. Being mindful of the people and things that brought stress into my life, helped me make the decisions I needed to make to avoid the anxiety in my future.
It drove me ‘crazy’ that most businesses have so much drama, gossip, and stress in the workplace! It really shouldn’t be that way. It is so easy to come up with a plan to delegate everyone’s work and build people up for success personally and professionally! While moving the business itself to thrive. “There is enough space in this world for everyone’s light to shine.” Most” businesses fail in customer service because the staff is so stressed from lack of communication and management productivity.
MY FINAL THOUGHTS
So, today, be motivated! BUT TAKE THE DAM ACTIONS! You have the capability to manifest any idea’s you have in your mind and the desires you have in your heart. The problems only persist when you are not taking your path towards those ideas and desires. The Divine wants to help you, but you have to help yourself by taking just one step. It really starts with just a decision! You choose and you do it! That’s it! You don’t let anyone talk you out of it, you don’t have any fear of failure and you never doubt your abilities. When you are “MINDFUL” you can bring your ideas, into actions. If it truly comes from your heart, you will find a way. The key is, you have to want it like you want the air in your lungs.
Seriously, blow all the air out of your lungs and watch how fast you breath for air! And, you don’t just want that air, you actually TAKE IT IN! And you appreciate it because you realize, well for one, “how dizzy you get without it” and for two, “how important it is for your survival”! Your path is important for your life and you must survive to go through your life. Your decisions are important for your life, and the actions you take are extremely important for your life. If you take in the choices, your paths can make you dizzy! You know what I mean? So, make good decisions, and Be motivated, YES! But take the actions to bring that inspiration inside of you to life! NOT MORE EXCUSES!!!!
“STOP TALKING ABOUT IT and BE ABOUT IT”
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