People Have Gone Mad! My Blog My Rant!

October 4, 2022October 5, 2025CHRISTINA DITZEL Leave a comment

People Have Gone Mad!

From millennials to Gen Z and from politics to religion…. people have gone mad! I don’t get it, really! We are taught at a young age to respect others and use our words kindly. So why do so many people today act so disguising? For those of us with parents who actually took the time to teach us manners, morals, and respect, I find myself scratching my head at some of you and your public behavior!

The controversial arguments over politics, religion, immigration, sexual preferences, and whatever the hell else you believe and argue about, has gotten completely out of control! Humans in survival mode are chaotic and beyond rationalizing! They panic and are extremely violent! I’ve found myself in complete shock after hurricane Ian. Watching a man in a gas station yelling at a lady over the direction of the line! Like first of all SIR, that lady was here 30 minutes before your arrival, and your next in line so calm the hell down! Why do men think they have the right to speak at women instead of speaking to women? Men today speak at women with such disrespect, and it makes me sick!

Do none of you have boundaries? Have you lost all respect for humanity? Do you know how to look in the mirror and judge yourselves before you point your fingers at others? Do you listen to the words coming out of your own mouths? How about your tone and body language used when you speak? This negative and toxic behavior must stop! For the sake of our society’s mental health and our children’s, children’s lifeline, this behavior must come to an end!

MY BLOG MY RANT!!!

First of all, LGBTQ community, I get it! You have had to hide in the closet for so long that your like Rapunzel who finally escaped her castle! I totally get! In fact, many women who live in countries that have limited, or no rights, are speaking up. And I get it! I really do.
We have all experienced a time in life where we felt like Rapunzel stuck in a castle (or should I say ‘stuck in a dungeon’). We feel alone with no choices and no voice! I understand! I really do! I’m completely compassionate about people and their stories!

But if Im completely transparent, I really wish EVERYONE WOULD LEARN TO STAY IN THEIR OWN DAM LANE!!!

How is it okay to band religion out of schools but push LGBTQ in schools? Some of you sound like a bunch of contradicting, selfish, and inconsiderate assholes when you speak! Yes, I said that out loud! MY BLOG MY RANT!!! (Do you see what I am doing here? Keep reading you’ll get it eventually. Maybe?)

You are no different than the radical Christian Cults and the politicians that push their beliefs on people, using fear and scare tactics to convert people! If you’re attempting to convert people to think and live exactly as you do, you’re not a good person! Bottom line! This behavior hurts our communities, and is teaching our youth anything but good morals, manners and respect!

This new age behavior patterns are impacting our society with protests, violence, and division! When we should be spreading, knowledge, wisdom, kindness, love, and respect for individuality. And let me just add here for those who say they are “peacefully protesting” NO! YOUR PROTESTS ARE NOT PEACEFUL! How the hell, is protesting ANYTHING publicly, a sign of peace???

Get your priorities and mindset in Check! Hurting others at the expense of benefiting yourselves is not JUST! How do you appreciate me going on rants like this? It’s a total contradiction, right? Wrong! You’re in my space! My blog! My Post! Are you getting it yet? It’s just ignorance and lacks kindness, humility and integrity! Do you even know what a protest is? It’s screaming your own beliefs, while kicking someone else’s beliefs down! How is that peaceful in any form of life? Your beliefs come from your life experiences, and you choose your life experiences with choices you make! YOU MAKE YOUR OWN CHOICES! Let’s make that very clear! How you act and react is a choice!

Your CHAOS and actions are not justified because you place a sad story behind it! Let me remind each and every one of you that EVERYONE …no matter color, race, religion, political views, gender, or belief system, EVERYONE HAS A SAD STORY ATTACHED TO THEM!!!

You’re Not Unique!

You’re not the only one who thinks, feels or acts the way you do! Your story may be special to YOU! And you may feel unique, but you’re not unique if one other person resonates with you! Unique means “THE ONLY ONE OF ITS KIND”! If you want to be unique, you can’t be a follower of trends, and you must not push your ideas to force others to speak, walk, talk, dress and act like you! Not if you want to be Unique!

Do you know why people get followers, likes, and genuine comments on social media? Because someone else resonated with their story!!! THATS NOT UNIGUE! Some of you follow me, because somehow the things I say hold some kind of value or meaning for you personally. My words resonate with you somehow. That doesn’t make me different or unique! It makes us connected in some way. And isn’t that what we are all here searching for? A human connection?

So many of us are addicted to having a huge following and yet, we think we are, or we want to be unique! I have news for you luv, you’re not unique if you have a huge following! You’re just alone in a great big world of beautiful souls who all crave attention and a connection! Thats right, I said it! “Influencers, leaders, and people in power crave attention, a voice, and control of their environment!” And if you’re in their environment, they will control you too!

I find it so fascinating how people get so depressed, angry, or bitter when they feel different then their family members, or even other people in their local community. Some people even feel this huge sense of lack because they have nothing in common with people around them. But, if you want to be unique, you can’t fit in to everyone else’s bubble! If you want to be unique, you have to be different then everyone else in your world! And in reality, that looks really lonely!

This new age Belief system that says “push, scream, throw a fit, protest, and project your beliefs onto others, just to get your voice heard”, or just to make a buck; only makes you special for your arrogance, violence, manipulation tactics, and division in the world you live in. Being “special” is NOT equal to Unique! BUT Unique is equal to being different! Let’s be clear on one thing, “Being different doesn’t mean trending”! It means staying in your lane and staying in your lane means having boundaries! In other words,

YOU SHOULD ALWAYS HAVE BOUNDARIES, THEN RESPECT OTHERS BY REALIZING THEY HAVE BOUDNARIES TOO!

People have gone mad because their being forced to believe things that don’t resonate with them personally! Everyone, and I mean EVERYONE, should learn the difference between sharing information, and using information to persuade others. The words you use can give life to one person, but may cause hurt, pain, and scarcity to another. If you don’t choose your words wisely, you could be doing more damage than good to your community. You want cultural diversity? That means respecting and accepting other people and their cultural beliefs!

When you push (shove, press, drive, force) your ideas onto others, who are special in their own way, you’re only causing division and madness! Your story is not my story, and my story is not your story. That means if you’re pushing your beliefs on me and those ideas conflict with my own beliefs, I will become confused, and then bitter. Furthermore, if you keep pressing the subject aggressively, I could become hostile myself. This is the root cause of anger, violence and division in our society today! Are you hearing what I am saying? I have boundaries and I have certain moral values that I live by. These are my beliefs and I feel very strongly about them. Do you have boundaries? Thats great if you said yes! Now, stay in your lane!!!

For example, I wouldn’t push my God on people by screaming biblical versus in the street. That is just a really example of my God who is not a dictator but rather a God that Loves and gave us “Free Will”! I would never threaten people with scare tactics to get them to believe in my God. Respectfully, I don’t care to have LGBTQ beliefs shoved down mine, or my kids throat. These are my boundaries for own life, it is not me judging anyone else for their lifestyle. I just don’t want to live it or be a part of it. Just like an atheist doesn’t want to be a part of a Christian group. If we want diversity, we must learn how to respect our differences without affecting each other in the process. I’ve been to many drag shows in fact I’ve been on stage with them, but the performances we did and things we said were NOT child appropriate!

Now, obviously, the above content is just a few examples for consideration. My point is, when we are showing public displays of our beliefs, whether it be on social media or in at a public place; using certain words, tones, body languages and our actions, do affect everyone in and around that space. If you don’t want people to stare or judge you, stop bringing attention to yourself! Just like the “In God We Trust” so many pushed out of the schools, I don’t want my children living a life that I feel devalues their human experience.

People are going mad because the moral values of our country are in conflict with the diversity of cultures. When you have a multitude of people in one room with different ideas, you will have conflict. But these conflicts don’t have to cause havoc! These conflicts don’t have to cause division and violence! We could live with each other in this great big world with our own boundaries. But we must respect others for their boundaries as well! We can accept others for their differences, but we don’t have to agree with or live by their rules.

So as a Conclusion to This Article, I’d Like to End by Saying This…

“Stay in your lane! Remember you will get more bees with honey! So, try your hardest to remain humble and kind in this next season of life. I promise, you will discover more peace in life when you make less noise! Always, always remember to stand your ground, but don’t kick others down in the process. “To live with integrity means to always be honest and TRUE TO YOURSELF! But don’t expect others to hold your same truth”. Hold strong to your own principles and moral values, by sharing! BUT Never EVER Dictate! Nowhere does INTEGRITY read or enable us to crush someone’s soul just because their principles don’t resonate with our own. That will never bring you complete happiness. The rules you allow into your boundaries are the morals you will live by. So, tread lightly where one can mislead you or where you can mislead others!

Infidelity and Forgiveness (Part 2)

September 25, 2022October 5, 2025CHRISTINA DITZEL Leave a comment

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FORGIVENESS…..

The most talked about action in the Bible, in many Religions, and in our personal healing journeys.

First, let’s get one thing very clear on what Forgiveness is not! Forgiveness does not mean enabling others to continue to hurt us. Some of you listen to churches preach the verse from Luke 6:29 and take it literally! It is meant for you to turn away from arrogance not to tolerate it! Nowhere in the bible does it say men (or any person) can lay their hands on you while you just sit back and tolerate it! Forgiveness does not give permission for others to disrespect or disregard our moral values! But let’s stick to the topic!

INFIDELITY

Cheating is infidelity which is the state of being unfaithful and disloyal. BOTTOM LINE! Let’s stop sugar coating it! Why are we forgiving this behavior? And some of you don’t just forgive it once, but you’ve forgiven it multiple times! WHYYYY????

When we’ve been cheated on, we sit and ponder on all the questions in and on our mind! Most of us ask…”what’s wrong with me? “Why am I not good enough?” “Why didn’t I see the red flags? Or “After all these years how did I miss the signs”? After those questions, and many others, the self-doubt, comparison, and uncertainty of our own worth begins to fester and kick into hard drive.

Forgiveness should never look like this….

First example: “Somehow I didn’t do my part which caused my partner to cheat” And you forgive them because it was your fault.

Second example: “I overreacted with jealousy and hallucinated the entire thing…he never actually cheated.” Again, forgiving them because you are irrational and unclear about reality.

If that sounds all too familiar let me tell you this…

Stop making excuses for smooth talkers, Con artists, and narcissists! NO, YOU’RE NOT CRAZY! NO, YOU DIDNT HALLUCINATE THE WHOLE THING! YES, HE IS FULL OF SHIT! AND IF YOU ARE HAVING JELOUS TENDENCIES, HE PUT THEM THERE AND GAVE YOU REASON TO FEEL THAT WAY. If you don’t trust someone it’s because they gave you a reason to distrust them! No one just wakes up jealous or insecure. EVER! Something or someone planted seeds that created these insecurities, self-doubt, and unworthy thoughts and emotions. But what I will say is that getting a handle on it, is your responsibility! Discovering why you are reacting that way and how to release it, is an entirely different journey! And it definitely does not include more toxic assholes in your life! So, take notes and start building boundaries! You can’t and won’t ever truly forgive until you understand “your own truth” and that looks very different for each of us.

Now, with all that said, let me be clear on one thing before I continue, “I do believe we should Forgive people who hurt us! BUT please hear me when I say, “Forgiveness does not mean we’re giving them permission to continue to use us as a doormat or manipulate us into tolerance”! We should HATE EVIL! Evil things people do is not a reflection of you, unless you react with evil in return!

What is Forgiveness

Forgiveness has a lot of definitions on the web. But I am about to explain forgiveness through a biblical approach. NO this is not meant to be religious or manipulating like bible thumper stuff. So don’t worry if bible stuff creeps you out or makes you uncomfortable in some way. I’m not here to convert you! I am about to tell you a story and truth about how I forgave my ex for cheating on me and how I became friends with his mistress! Let me start by saying, I was with him for 14 years. We had two kids together and although we had our struggles and disagreements, I thought we could overcome anything! I really did believe we were the power couple everyone wished they could be! But when he got a younger girl pregnant, I was devastated to say the least! However, I did forgive both of them! That’s right! Her and I became friends and I even….

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WHAT ARE WE LIVING FOR?

August 25, 2022October 5, 2025CHRISTINA DITZEL Leave a comment

What are we living for? Like do you ever wonder …

“what’s the point of all this”?

Ugh, Life! What is the purpose of ones life? The roller coaster of good seasons and bad seasons. Its so overwhelming sometimes!

You know, we go through our journey and each of us walk down a different path. We each experience missed opportunities, and opportunities that open doors to blessings! Life is filled with little experiences, the cultures were introduced to, the food we eat, the family that raises us, and the impact they have on us as we get older. But still we ask “what’s the point”? I mean we don’t get to choose our paths or do we?

I have lived the past 7 years trying to ignore everything I’ve ever been taught and allow strangers from all walks of life to share their experiences and journey with me and I’ve listened with the intent to learn something new. Or atleast to see life through someone else’s eyes. And can I just say. It’s fascinating how different we all truly are!

But what’s the point of the journey? Is it all about reaching our goals? Is it the job? the money? The car? The house? The family? What should we focus on? Is it in our hustle & grind or our accomplishments?

What do you think?

And even if and when we have accomplished all “the things”, what is there left to do next? Are we supposed to just keep chasing the next thing? Fill the voids of being alone with our wins? Or share them with loved ones who come and go in and out of our life? To just constantly chase people, things, places, love, or for just a little attention and a small taste of pleasure? Like what’s the point of this life anyway?!? The chase? The human experience? What’s it for?

And if we’re all on a different hunan experience, why do we fight, and have so much division in our world today? Will humans ever be able to live in harmony with one another, helping, teaching, loving, and sharing our experiences? Will we find a way to help one another with love, compassion, and respect rather than with a desire for power and wrath?

These were the questions I asked myself this past weekend as I layed in a hospital bed scared to hear the test results of the CT SCAN. After being rushed to the emergency room from a “squeezing chest pain”. My life flashed before my eyes! “I’m 45, I eat healthy, exercise, pray, do all the things, so why me? The worry didn’t end there! My next worry was obviously…”What will happen to my daughter’s if I’m gone”?

All the questions that come rushing up when we haven’t planned for the upcoming, unpredictable events that come crashing into our life like a tornado!

Eventually, my daughter’s would get over the loss. But this experience would definitely impact them for the rest of their life. What will they do with that impact? Will they spend their time trying to fix what the doctors couldn’t? Would they numb it with drugs, alcohol and other recreational activities or substances? Well, thank God we don’t have to find out, (not yet anyway) because I’m not finished with my work here.

I was released and sent home with medications! Which I’m not fond of. Since I prefer a more organic and holistic approach to healing. But here I am!

Guess, what I’m trying to say is, life will happen, no matter what road you choose or hand you get delt. So, don’t kill yourself over a few bad choices, or for not choosing a different route.

I no longer feel that life is just about the journey, I believe it’s what you decide to do ‘WITH-IN’ the journey that matters most.

“Dont loss hope, embrace the journey your on, and always listen to the little lessons and blessings life offers you!.”

PREVENT THEM FROM MEDICATING THE MASSES

August 13, 2022October 2, 2025CHRISTINA DITZEL Leave a comment

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THIS IS MINIPULATION, ABUSE, AND CAUSES MORE TRUAMA

Let’s get something clear…

I am NOT against “ALL MEDICATIONS”! And I don’t hate the LGBTQ community!!!

However, when I see doctors missusing medications it makes the blood in my veins boil!!! And when I see people who are supposedly “medical professionals” use manipulation tactics to feed their own ideas and beliefs, I can’t sit back quietly and watch.

GOD DEFINITELY DIDN’T CREATE ME TO STAY QUIET! I talk to dam much!

So I have a few questions and concerns…

Why are you giving medication to a a person who you label “a drug addict”? If they are “addicted to drugs, why would you give them more drugs?

Furthermore, Why do you think it’s okay to give antidepressants to children in foster care? Aren’t their parents the ones who need help? Shouldn’t we be offering help to the parents so they can learn a better way to raise their children?

“People won’t do what they don’t know how to do”!

Don’t even let me get started on how dysfunctional it is to proscribe Luprone to young children to stop puberty!!! Which Btw, is a chemical drug used to castrate sex offenders! So now we are forcing LGBTQ down everyone’s throat?? Our young boys are being pressured to become girls at a young age without giving them a fair chance to choose?

I’m apauld at how dysfunctional our medical field has become! But I am more disgusted at the parents who allow this shit to go on and dont question these doctors motives!! I fear the darkness my daughter’s and their children will face in the years to come, if something isn’t said and done about this monstrosity!!!

So without fear or doubt in my “com’on sense brain, and self-awareness” Im about to GET REAL up in here!!!

I will be speaking up on the drugs used to treat patients! Not only because I believe in a more holistic approach, but because I have used a holistic approach in my own family for years and the results don’t include: suicidal thoughts, depression, confusion of identity recognition, or neglect!

It is not okay to pay hundreds and thousands of dollars to people just because they took a course and passed a test. Who even creates those tests? Radical politicians??

I’ve not only had the opportunity to work with these so called “professionals”, but I’ve spoke to and met people in the medical field, social workers, DCF employees, and foster parents, and many of them have mental health issues themselves. Yet, we trust these individuals to care for our family members? What is happening?!?!

I am not the only person afraid to take my child to the doctor for basic checkups. I speak for those parents who have become outraged! Parents are scared of a basic physical and medical check ups because “doctors push vaccines and medications.

VOTE YES! In the comments below if you want more doctors to do their dam job and do it better!

Doctor’s, do more research and take a more holistic approach in treatment!

“Our species matter”

Fear Helps Us Survive

I dont know what your religious beliefs are but I do believe “Many” people, with the acception of atheists, believe system says “We are souls, with a mind, in a body”.

And some believe we are here on mission, some believe we are on a Journey, and some believe we’re having a human experience. And then there are those who just go through the motions of life without any real care or purpose at all!

And I am not here to talk about religion or what any of our beliefs are. Because truth is I dislike religion. I think it’s filled with rules with no real practice of action. And I have learned So much from other people’s beliefs, so I dont discount or discourage people for their own ideas, based on their religious, political, or social interests.

Until, it affects me! Then we have an issue! But, I am not here to push my ideas on you so let’s get that out of the way now! What I am here to talk about is fear and survival! These wo words mean something very different to each of us.

Fear keep us in fight or fight mode!

And fight-or-flight or the fight-flight-or-freeze response “is a physiological reaction that occurs in response to a perceived harmful event, attack, or threat to Survival”.

Now, I don’t care what your religion, culture, sex, age, ethnicity, or political belief is, I dont even care what species we reference; one thing I know for sure

Is that SURVIVAL keeps every living thing on this planet living in FEAR!

We all act and react based on what survival looks like to us at any given time in our life. And lets face it, in every season our survival continues to change. Along with our perspective on life.

Furthermore, What survival looks like to you may not look the same to your neighbors.

If I asked you what you were afraid of, I can gaurentee you’d all have a different answer. But whar if you heard your neighbors answers? Would you call it fear? Or an experience?

Some of us would agree that what they fear most is either a “wow factor” meaning Hell yes! I would totally be afraid of that too! Or some of the things your neighbors are afraid of you, you may say

Hell nah! No way that scares me!

Or others have already experienced the things you fear and can most likely offer you tips to overcome some of that fear.

But sometimes, even someone else’s experience wouldn’t help you overcome your fear! Would it? Because when you’re in fight – flight or freeze, you know there is no way you’re going to survive this!

Now, the things we fear most will do one of three things:

1 – it protects us from harm

2 – it teaches us something about ourselves and our situations,

3 – it helps us advance ourselves and our situation

How many of you believe with every struggle comes an opportunity?

With every struggle comes a thought in our mind, an emotion in our soul, and our body reacts according to those thoughts and emotions.

We have total control of our mind. We can think whatever we want.

I can sit in a room with 100 people and have them close their eyes and ask then to imagine being on a cruise watching the sun set. One person may not be able to see the sunset or feel the wind in their hair and on their skin at all. They won’t smell the coconut and pineapples from the pina coladas. And another person would have such a vivid imagination that they will be able to taste, smell and feel like they are actually there on a cruise. And others may have such an intense experience that they begin to feel motion sickness.

We have total control of our minds, but what puts fear in us is the perspective we place on our experiences. We have the ability to choose what and how doctors medicate the masses, because as adults we have control over what happens to our own body’s. Likely wise as parents we have the responsibility to protect our children and their bodies from toxic chemicals that change their natural production.

What lens are you looking through in this season? I hope it is to prevent them from medicating the masses by speaking up on the things you know are wrong, unjust, and irrational!!!

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Is Fear Our Source of Survival, Or Does Survival Keep Us Living in Fear?

August 12, 2022October 2, 2025CHRISTINA DITZEL Leave a comment

What is your perspective on life? Does fear just remind us that we are here having a human experience? All questions so many of us have! I don’t know what your religious beliefs are, but I do believe “Many” of us, with the exception of atheists, believe “We are souls, with a mind, in a body”.

And some believe we are here on mission, some believe we are on a journey, and some believe we’re having a human experience. And then there are those who just go through the motions of life without any real care or purpose at all!

And I am not here to talk about religion or what any of our beliefs are. Because truth is I dislike religion. I think it’s filled with rules with no real practice of action. And I have learned So much from other people’s beliefs, so I don’t discount or discourage people for their own ideas, based on their religious, political, or social interests.

Until it affects me! Then we have an issue! But I am not here to push my ideas on you so let’s get that out of the way now! What I am here to talk about is fear and survival! These words mean something very different to each of us.

Fear keeps us in fight or fight mode!

And fight-or-flight or the fight-flight-or-freeze response “is a physiological reaction that occurs in response to a perceived harmful event, attack, or threat to Survival”.

Now as I have already said, I don’t care what your religion, culture, sex, age, ethnicity, or political belief is; one thing I know for sure is that SURVIVAL keeps every living thing on this planet living in FEAR!

We all act and react based on what survival means to us. And that can change at any given time in our life. Let’s face it, in every season our means for survival is constantly changing. Along with our perspective on life. Furthermore, what survival looks like to you, definitely looks different to your neighbors. If I asked all my readers “what they were afraid of most”, I can almost guarantee everyone would have a different answer. Some answers might even make you rethink the answer you have already conjured up in your head as you read this and ponder on it. Some answers may even have you fearful while others make you feel thankful.

But sometimes, even someone else’s experience wouldn’t help you overcome your fear! Would it? Because when you’re in fight or flight, or freeze, you know there is no way you’re going to survive the current situation!

Okay so what is my dam point? Fear is not always a bad thing. And sometimes it is there to help you along the way. The things we fear most will do one of three things:

1 – it protects us from harm

2 – it teaches us something about ourselves and our situations

3 – it helps us advance ourselves and our situation

How many of you believe with every struggle comes an opportunity? I know if you’re going through something tragic right now, that may be hard to grasp. Think differently and your situation will appear different. With every struggle comes a thought in our mind, an emotion in our soul, and our body reacts according to those thoughts and emotions.

We have total control of our mind. We can think whatever we want, but what we allow ourselves to think on, will be the result of our circumstances.

I could be in a room with 100 people and ask them to close their eyes and imagine being on a cruise watching the sun set, and there would be 100 different perspectives and experiences. One person may not be able to see the sunset or feel the wind in their hair and on their skin. They won’t smell the coconut and pineapples from the pina coladas. And another person would have such a vivid imagination that they will be able to taste, smell and feel like they are actually there on that cruise. And for the moment they will be in complete bliss and without worry of their current problems. Someone else may have such an intense experience that they begin to feel motion sickness and actually make themself believe they are sick.

We have total control of our circumstances because we have total control of our minds. The fear in us is the perspective we place on our own experiences. What lens are you looking through in this season of life?

TO BE CONTINUED…

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