When you are transforming, it is OKAY to not recognize yourself. You’ve never been where you’re going. So, if it feels familiar, remember to just take a moment and SRA! SRA! SRA! “STOP – REALIGN – ASSES”. To transform your life today go to HOT MESS TO TOTALLY BLESSED and begin to take the journey into Clarity, Zen, and Abundance!

TRANSFORMING SINGLE MOMS TO REDEFINE THEMSELVES, BECOME STRONGER, SELF AWARE, BUILD BETTER COMMUNICATION SKILLS WITH THEIR CHILDREN, AND DATE PURPOSEFULLY, SO THEY CAN FIND CLARITY IN THE MESS AND LIVE IN ABUNDANCE!!!

Let the Journey Begin…

It is not by chance that you found this site.

Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton

Hello and Welcome to a journey, where we transform our lives and discover ABUNDANCE in all things by seeing ourselves and our circumstances through a new lens! If you are a single mom who is trying to redefine herself, have a better connection with your daughters, and desire a happier, fuller, richer, life I want you to first know that you are not alone and you are safe here! Together as a community of women we will learn how to make better lifestyle choices, understand why we make the choices we do, and prevent the things that brought us to this moment of loneliness, and struggle. I am here to motivate you to feel alive in your skin and give you a vision for transformation. A new you mean, building boundaries, standing firm in self-respect, avoiding toxic people and relationships, being a better mom, and ultimately learning how to become a “single, successful, beautiful, and vibrant, happy BOSS MOM”. My belief is that everyone wants to build better relationships, live with less stress, and learn how to live happy and successful. But most never will. As a single mom of two daughters, I know the struggle is real! I remember the feeling of loneliness, the scarcity of starting over, not knowing how I was going to do it on my own, and the trauma of rebuilding a new home for children who are confused and divided by parents who are angry and bitter. I remember it because it’s in every good and bad memory my daughters and I have. I know the pain well because it has brought me here to this very moment today! I also know that as moms we have one of the most important roles in this life! We must not only build ourselves back up, but also carry and build our children up as well! If you are a woman starting over as a single mom, and you need some clarity in your current situation, you are in the right place!

My daughters and I have found peace and tranquility by eliminating everything and everyone toxic in our life. As we individually take our journey through existence, we can either discover our true essence and purpose, or we can go through life defined by the people, places and experiences that surround us. Being an independent single mom can be difficult when society teaches women to “stay in our lane”! Some of us have been told things like: “know your role”, “don’t speak until your spoken to”, “be a good little girl” and they are saying things like “a women’s place is in the home raising the kids”! I have even heard things like “You’re to be seen not heard” and “Remain meek and modest” Well, these are some of the things I’ve been told over the years but maybe you have heard similar comments. Thankfully, over the years many women have decided to upset that belief system and I am one of those women! I am not a feminist in “traditional form”, but I am here to support and encourage women with children to live courageously and embrace the unknown experiences that will create abundance to and through mothers and daughters. I believe we all came here with a purpose to discover, learn, and grow. I also believe that the journey takes us down paths that could cause a ripple effect of blessings to and through our children. Although, I am very aware that the struggle is real and it is difficult to self-care when we are left to fend for ourselves, raising our children alone.

I am here to help you find and define a new journey through a life that discovers abundance in all things! Please join me on an exciting journey to discover meaning and purpose in our mess. Building a community where women and children can feel safe to explore and expand their horizons! This is a safe place where we connect and build amazing relationships that build each other up in the struggle! Stay connected and join in each week to Zen Lenz Media, a Podcasts where we make time to calm our souls and find clarity in our mess so we can discover life through a new lens. A lens I like to call “A ZEN LENZ”! Take the first step in transforming your life and subscribe and join me today! I can’t begin to tell you the joy I receive by helping others! My goal and mission is to build a community of women who gain wisdom in the mess. This is a safe community where we can redefine ourselves, become the loving moms our children need to thrive, and have accountability partnerships that see the clarity we need to build our Abundant life.

“Remember, when you shine a little light on your own life,

That light sends vibrations that spreads through and to the world around you”

BY CHRISTINA DITZEL